12. There is certainly the possibility because the one thing you can’t be is a white male that he will always pity you.
13. He could feel great about causing you to “really” American: assimilated, integrated, intermarried, perhaps not standing aside.
14. He could judge you significantly more harshly to be haughty if not bitchy than he’d judge a white girl, because he secretly thinks you ought to be grateful he picked you.
15. If he’s a keeper, he’ll stand up to their mom that you aren’t the “exotic mistress, ” or a fancy little “touch of the tarbrush, ” or any of the other phrases from the TV movie Queenie that you could watch a million times, sitting on the couch with him with your feet in his lap, even while you complain that Mia Sara “white-washed” the role of the Anglo-Indian Merle Oberon character, a role that should’ve been cast with an actress of color if he has to and make sure she gets it.